In just a few weeks Rich and I will celebrate our tenth wedding anniversary. These years have been amazing, I'm so happy in my marriage, Rich is truly the best of men and spending time with him is the bright spark in my every day. Roll on the years! That being said there has always been a divide between us, a line drawn in the sand which neither of us was willing to cross. It was there from the early days, but consumed by our love for each other we chose to ignore it, lulled by the belief that love would conquer all, ignorant of how much it would affect us. Finally the divide became so great that we had to make allowances for each other, each of us accepting our own side and unwilling to cross, to share with each other something that meant so much. Until now. Cancer can really change you! I am of course talking about the fact that I Love Coffee (I am a self confessed starbucks gold card carrier!) whilst Rich hates it. He of course drinks only tea, and weird dust flavoured Earl Grey...